A Need for Advocacy

An advocate is someone who publicly supports or recommends a cause, policy, or person. To advocate is to take action in support of an idea, plan, or individual in need.

Recently, I came across a Facebook post from a grandmother who shared how her grandson needed an advocate. His school principal wanted to suspend him for something he said. Instead of reacting immediately, the grandmother asked her grandson to tell her the full story—and through that conversation, she realized he needed someone to stand up for him. She became his advocate.

Why Advocacy Matters

Children—and even some adults—sometimes need an advocate. Advocates can provide guidance on how to handle difficult situations, achieve goals, and learn better ways to express themselves.

Imagine wanting to speak up, to explain your side, or to share what you’re feeling—but not having the words or confidence to do so. That’s a hard place to be in. Advocacy bridges that gap.

Benefits of Having an Advocate

• Understanding Options: Advocates help children see choices and possibilities they might not recognize on their own—whether it’s how to handle conflict, prepare for a test, or manage relationships.

• Identifying Growth Areas: Advocates can gently point out areas for improvement and guide children toward developing new skills.

• Recognizing Strengths: Sometimes, children don’t see the best parts of themselves. Advocates help reveal their strengths and celebrate their potential.

After listening to her grandson share what happened, she didn’t agree with the principal that what he said was incorrect or wrong based on the negative statement the principal made about him and the other students. However, she did agree that he could have said chosen better words. 

Having an advocate doesn’t mean doing everything for someone—it means standing with them, helping them find their voice, and supporting their growth.

My Voice, written by Founder, Norma Ivy Venable speaks about having your voice heard and sometimes having to advocate for yourself. It can be purchased at Amazon.com.